Starting nursery or school is a huge milestone for both children and their parents! While it’s an exciting step, it’s perfectly normal for little ones (and even grown-ups) to feel a flutter of nerves or a twinge of separation anxiety. At Edith & Blanche, we know how important it is to make those first days feel a little less daunting and a lot more joyful. Here are some gentle, practical tips to help everyone transition from butterflies to big smiles.
1. Talk It Through Together
Begin chatting about nursery or school well before the big day. Read stories about starting school, talk about what to expect, and encourage your child to share how they’re feeling. Acknowledge their worries and let them know it’s okay to miss home, everyone feels that way sometimes!
2. Create a Special Goodbye Ritual
A consistent, loving goodbye routine can work wonders. Whether it’s a secret handshake, a big bear hug, or a special phrase, rituals provide comfort and predictability. Remind your child you’ll be back soon, and try to keep goodbyes short and sweet.
3. Send a Comfort Item
A familiar object can make all the difference. Whether it’s a soft toy, a favourite book, or a little keepsake tucked in their bag, comfort items offer reassurance during the day. Explore our collection of snuggly soft toys and books perfect for soothing first-day jitters.
4. Stay Calm and Positive
Children pick up on our emotions. Even if you’re feeling wobbly inside, do your best to stay calm and upbeat at drop-off. Celebrate their bravery, no matter how small the step, and remind yourself that it’s a big transition for you, too.
5. Celebrate the Little Wins
After the first day (or week), talk about what went well. Did they make a new friend? Try something new? Recognise these small victories and celebrate with a favourite after-school activity or a treat from our Dress Up collection to keep the positive vibes going.
6. Read Together About Big Feelings
Books are brilliant for helping children process big emotions. Choose stories that talk about starting school, saying goodbye, or making new friends. Our curated books collection is full of gentle, encouraging reads that can make all the difference.
First day nerves are a rite of passage for families everywhere. With a little preparation, lots of love, and a cozy comfort item or two, those butterflies will soon give way to big smiles and new adventures.
Wishing you and your little ones a joyful start to the school year! If you need any ideas for comfort items, books, or a little pep talk, pop by our shop at 5 Marmion Road, Southsea, or browse online at edithandblanche.com. We’re always here to help.
